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5 tips to help you navigate your divorce

Divorce is not just about ending your marriage. It is about securing sufficient support for yourself and your children. It is about deciding who gets to keep the house in Pembroke Pines, how to divide retirement accounts and what property you should fight for. It is also about avoiding some common mistakes than can cost you both emotionally and financially.

During the divorce process, it can be very difficult to keep things in proper perspective. You may be dealing with anger, hurt and even depression while at the same time trying to make decisions about your future. By following the tips below, you can make your divorce easier.

Divorce is not the time to maintain a friendship

Perhaps you and your ex have children, you were great friends before you were romantically involved or there are other reasons why you should be friends while you are talking to your respective divorce attorneys. Whatever the reason you have for this notion, pack it away until you receive your finalized divorce decree. No matter how much you want to maintain a friendship with your ex-spouse, the chances are high that each of you are experiencing a wide range of emotions. To save yourself from any further pain, be sure to set some strong boundaries so that you are each free to move on.

Build a team

Going through your divorce alone can hurt you financially and mentally. Instead of trying to do everything yourself, enlist a strong team of professionals and support. This might include a financial advisor, a therapist, family members and friends. By surrounding yourself with the right people, you can make better decisions with respect to your divorce settlement, custody issues and even staying healthy through the process.

Take your time

While there might be a strong part of you that just wants to get your divorce done and over with as soon as possible, do not rush it. Divorce is a major decision that is the first of many other major decisions. Take the time you need to plan for your future. By deciding where you want to live and what you need to maintain some semblance of your current living situation, you can create a budget that will help you make decisions in terms of property division. Also, be sure that you are receiving the appropriate financial information, such as property valuations that account for present and future tax consequences.

Express your emotions

It is perfectly normal to feel an entire rollercoaster's worth of emotions. One day you might feel heartbreak, the next rage and by the end of the week total elation. Whatever emotions you are experiencing, be sure you are expressing them in a healthy way instead of keeping them bottled up. While you do not want to make any decisions fueled by these emotions, you will certainly want to find a positive outlet for them. This might mean talking with a trusted friend, taking that kickboxing class at your gym or attending a support group. Find a method that works for you so that these emotions do not control any part of your decision-making during the divorce process.

Don't let divorce keep you down

Your divorce is going to affect all aspects of your life, from your sleep schedule to your eating habits. It is perfectly normal to not want to get out of bed every now and then while going through a divorce. However, you should not let this become a habit. If your divorce is taking over your every waking moment and works its way into every conversation, it is time to start regaining control of your life. When you start thinking about your divorce outside of your attorney's office or a therapy session, try to switch your thinking to something more positive so that the negativity does not dominate.

Divorce can be very difficult for most people, but with the above tips, you can navigate your divorce successfully. By adopting a few positive and healthy activities and not letting your divorce take over, you can start your new life with a brighter outlook.

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